Wednesday, November 7, 2012

marlies


I haven’t responded in a while but I sure love these plates

Emma’s baptism was so wonderful.  Luke and Amy have created such a beautiful home with such great friends.  I couldn’t believe how many people were there and I LOVED my little nap in Lukie’s bed J

Emma looked so beautiful. She has grown into such a kind young lady.  She was so funny as we snapped pictures left and right of her – she just glowed.  I wish we could all remember that sweet feeling the day we are baptized.  Daily struggles and hurts might not seem like such a big deal when we remember the big picture.

I love you all and miss you so much
Marlies

Small Plates of Gramma Rosi #23


Small Plates of Grandma Rosi #23   October 27, 2012

Hello Family,

We are having a wonderful autumn here in Utah, unbelievable weather.  I love to drink it all in when I walk.  The colors in the mountains are beginning to fade, the air is warm yet crisp.  Yesterday it snowed some and this a.m. the tomatoes were all frozen.  I spent some time out in the yard digging up and gathering dead tomato plants and dying chrysanthemum plants.  The whole garbage can was filled again to the brim.
I have decorations on the front porch.  I think it looks nice but it is not a Halloween look…  more like autumn/Thanksgiving with pilgrims, autumn leaves, scarecrows and lots of pumpkins.  It has been fun to catch the spirit of Thanksgiving in particular.  I am so thankful for this country.  I have been reading some historical novels lately. .. Revolutionary War, World War II and more.    It makes me appreciate our home and our current world so very much.
A couple of weekends ago Dad and I took a long drive.  We went over to the Capitol Reef area.  We had an itch to get out and drive in the mountains.  We had a good time but by the time we got home Dad was beat.  Dad also took me to the opera last Friday night. .. Il Trovatore by Verdi. (I sang the  leading role in Il Trovatore with Utah Opera in about 1985.) It was great to be out with Dad at such an event.  It was really fun to be in Salt Lake City and see the night life.  Wow, the place is changing.  It seemed like a party was going on with people walking the streets and lots of restaurants open and active. 

Three weeks ago Dad and I worked in the back yard.  I made a deal with him.  I told him I would take a stool out for him to sit on if he would sit there and cut down the decorative grasses that are over taking the place.  I wrapped my arms around large clumps  and he would cut them off just a few inches about the ground.  It worked like a champ.  I filled two garbage cans with the debris.  We were a good team.
Dad has had a rough few months.  Allergies have really made him miserable along with his back which has made him miserable.  I have been struggling again with trigeminal neuralgia …  mostly in my teeth.  The medicine created problems with my colon.  I have mostly stayed working, but it has been hard.
My fall concert went extremely well on Wednesday. (My final Fall Concert in my life.)  Wish you could be here. Our Chamber Choir performed Bohemian Rhapsody by Queen.  It went well, complete with a screaming electric guitar.
This is what I know about the family:
Nick has had two second interviews with two different companies in Salt Lake for a new job.  He has since had a 3rd interview with CHG.  He should know about it in the next couple of days.
Dixie had knee surgery and got along well.  She is rehabbing at a facility called Stonehenge just two blocks from my school.
Tamme’s birthday was the 22nd.  Happy Birthday, Tam.
We spoke briefly with Tim on Sunday.  He sounded good.
We just talked with Becky.  She has a full plate right now.  Her orals for her PHD proposals are Nov. 15.  She has been working 20 hours a day in preparation and had a bit of a setback which discouraged her.  Now, however, she feels like things will be even better than if she had proceeded without the delay.
We enjoyed Marlies’ visit last week.  It was fun to eat her birthday cake on Sunday at Luke’s house.  Way to go, Amy, thanks for getting her favorite cake.  MMMMM  (We actually saw more of Abby and Savannah than we did of her and Melissa.  They are very popular.)  They brought Dad two tortoises. They are the size of a small pancake.  Dad is really enjoying them.  So is Petal.  She sits watching them with her nose about 2 inches from their cage.  Then she climbs on top of the cover (which is netting) and looks down over them, her mouth drooling. 
Luke’s family has been busy with birthday parties, camping and entertaining visitors.  They are a very busy group with lots of folks who enjoy their company.  Saturday Luke, Quincey and Tyler went fishing and brought home 10 fish.  This was the story I got:  “Quincey caught the largest fish, Tyler caught the most fish and Luke caught the smallest fish.”  Poor Lukie.  Their family sang in our ward today.  It was wonderful and so many people spoke with me afterwards telling me how much they enjoyed the Mathews’ music. 
A BRIEF BIOGRAPHY OF Emma Elizabeth Mathews
Emma was born on Oct. 12, 2004.  Her family was living in the basement of the Lindon home that we shared.  Her arrival made us all so happy.  We were grateful for a beautiful, little baby girl…  so pure, sweet and precious.  Emma’s favorite food (when at Grandma’s house) is deviled eggs and macaroni and cheese.  She is a hard worker and is not afraid of spiders.  Without asking she will slip down in our window wells, where spiders live, and pull weeds or pick up debris.  She enjoys cooking and is the chief assistant chef.   Emma is learning to play the piano and is a lovely singer.  Her close friend is Naomi Dent.  Her favorite color is green. When she grows up she wants to be a veterinarian or an opera singer.
Emma was baptized on October 13, 2012.  Many family members gathered to celebrate.  It was a wonderful day.

Love you All

Have a spooky Halloween!!  

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

small plates of gramma rosi #21


September 23, 2012
Small Plates of Grandma Rosi  #21

Hello Again, Family,

We have been thinking about you all this week.  (That hasn’t changed.)  In summary, this is what I know:  Becky and Adam’s home was burglarized (It’s a good thing you guys made lots of money at your glass show, Adam.  This news via Dad.  Congratulations!!), Quincey had her Big Birthday party (12 little girls were invited and Luke said “he made it through it”.)  Nick has been given different (and more satisfactory) responsibilities at his work.   BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY:  the Sorensen’s are going to add two more “girlie” feet to our family tree.  Hooray for us!!!!

Dad and I have been having computer issues.  Both his desk top and my laptop have been down for a few days.  My MVDS tech guy seems to have things straightened out for me.  Dad has been working by telephone with a company with whom he has a contract.  This morning he said it looked like things were fixed.  I hope so.  He gets really frustrated.

You recall that we will be celebrating Dixie’s 76th birthday on the 29th…  hum, I believe that is Saturday.  I asked her to give us some information about that time and about her birth into the Lloyd Olsen family.  As usual, she takes her assignments very seriously.  So here is a portion of her writing.  I will probably send you more next week, but thought that this was a good start.  It will certainly give you a good feel for the Paradise in the middle of the 20th century.  Thanks, Dixie.

September 29, 1936

MY SISTER, DIXIE WRITES:

   What was Paradise like  -- almost 76 years ago?  First off, I was born in the LDS Hospital in Logan on September 29, 1936,  and was brought home to Paradise about 10 days later.  That was how long Moms spent "in confinement" in those days.  It's hard to imagine 10 days at $4.00 a day. The total bill was $65.20.  With $40.00 for ten day stay, $25.00 to the doctor for his fee, and 20cents for two phone calls home.   Being a romantic about historical things involving me, I state that I had "perfect parents".  Lloyd Olsen, my Dad, was a gentleman of few words, and Mary Alyce Dunn Olsen, my Mom, was kind and accommodating-- a wonderful homemaker;  they were both hardworking, God fearing, community minded and fully invested in their beliefs, their marriage and family.  These values were passed on to Johnny, Rosemary and me.  Our parents were also a handsome couple, and we have passed those genes on to all of you ! ! ! 

    Paradise in 1936 was an agricultural community with families working as farmers/ ranchers and striving to be self-sufficent as much as possible. The population numbered 500 people--now it is between 2,000/2,500.  The only oiled road was the main street that passed through town on the way from Hyrum on the north to Avon on the south.  The Mormon pioneers in the 1860's-70's had drawn the town plat into 10 acre blocks, each block having 8 lots (four facing west and four facing east, divided by wide roads) and each lot was 1 1/4 acres.  The 10 acre square in the middle held the Paradise school on the east half with playground and baseball diamonds and the old rock church on the west half with an irrigation ditch and a row of stately poplar trees dividing them in the middle.  The church was remodeled extensively in the early 1950's with a new chapel added on the south and the original rock church covered with a heavy coat of stucco.  Dad was in charge of the building fund committee for raising money as each ward had to pay a big portion of costs, and Uncle Marion was the bishop.


    On  residential blocks, each lot had space for the home--often white framed wood, enclosed by a white picket fence-- the barn and animal sheds, a grainery, chicken coops, a pig pen, wood and coal sheds with space left over for a vegetable garden, fruit orchard, corral for animals and pastures for grazing.  Tall and narrow Lombardy poplars lined many yards.  They have a short life span of 80 to 100 years and have been gone a long time.  Long irrigation ditches were dug by hand to carry water from the "spring run-off" of melting mountain snow through two hand dug canals running south to north to the thirsty lawns, pastures, gardens and orchards scattered across town.  Crops grown in irrigated fields bordering the town included alfalfa, wheat, corn and oats; these were fed in season to dairy cattle (usually Holstein, some Jersey cattle), sheep, poultry, work horses (used to pull plows, harrows, and harvesting equipment--proceeding tractors and modern machinery) and saddle horses.  Most families had dogs trained to work the livestock and cats who lived in barns and graineries to keep down the rodent population (these animals did not live in the house as is common now).  Many families owned "dry farms" (like our 07 Ranch) in the foothills where there was no means to irrigate and you depended on rain and good weather to produce crops.  Some years they were very good, depending on weather conditions, and some years not so good.  Children's daily chores often included feeding chickens and gathering eggs, weeding vegetable gardens, carrying buckets of kindling and firewood into the house, and milking cows and feeding livestock as kids grew older. Inside the work was labor intensive with Mondays usually set aside for washing in old fashioned wringer washers,  hanging clothes on outside lines to dry and then "sprinkling down" the items that would be ironed on Tuesday.  In season, canning, pickling and jelly making took many hands and many hours.  In large families, there was always mending and sewing to do.  A saying was, "Many hands make light work." 

    Today we should be grateful to our ancestors who as founding pioneers helped to develop Paradise.  Samuel Oldham (Lancastershire England)and Mary Price Oldham (Prices were from Wales),  Gideon E Olsen, Sr. from Norway and Johanna Danielsen Olsen (Danielsons also Scandanavian);  these individuals were grandparents of Lloyd Olsen (your grandfather).    

    Our lives were centered around the home and community with church and school of great importance.  We attended a red brick school that had five rooms, four for classes of bilevel education including Grades 1-2 w/Mrs. Bankhead; Grades 3-4 w/Mrs. Bickmore; Grades 5-6 w/Mr. Duce (from Hyde Park and the only "foreigner")and Grades 7-8 w/Mr. Bailey who was also our principal.  The fifth room was the library with books and tables for projects.  How we admired and respected our teachers and the exciting things we learned from them.  We DID have INSIDE plumbing at school in the basement, one bathroom for girls and one for boys.  Many of the children lived in homes without inside plumbing.  An outhouse, one hole-two hole-or three hole-  and a tin tub for bathing near the kitchen stove where the cistern had water heated on the side of the stove had to suffice.  At school, lunch was created each day from scratch by Mrs. Emily Pearce and no one complained or said "Yuck"!   There was no special ed section, we all learned to read, write and do math. We had music and sports during recess.   There were 18 kids in my grade level, 10 girls and 8 boys--approximately 120 kids attending Paradise School in eight grades at any one time.  We also learned how to conduct ourselves and be an asset to society.  I used to plan events and put together programs, plays and musicals.  My Dad would haul the rugs off the floor, and bring chairs and lamps from home for my little productions.  He never complained, just watched the show, smiled alot and hauled all the stuff back home when we finished.  He was such a nurturing, kind, sweet father.  How can I count my blessings??

    On Sunday, we met in the old rock church in an upstairs classroom at the back during the war.   The teachers for Sunday School, Primary and Mutual (held on weekdays) were always prepared and engaged in our learning process.  Our bishopbric consisted of sincere, caring men.


END OF AUNT DIXIE’S WRITINGS FOR THIS WEEK.

SURE CARE ABOUT AND LOVE ALL OF YOU.

MOM

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Small Plates of Grandma Rosi #20

Good Morning

I am sitting at my desk with a blank mind, needing some inspiration about what to say.

As I look around my room I see pictures:   

Pictures of a family that I love so much and am very proud of:

     
     Little grandchildren who are growing up and changing so fast.   

     Our children who have families and responsibilities far beyond what I have any more.  We are so grateful for you!!!

     Dixie, Carol, John...   Dad's and my brother and sisters.

     Our ancestors who have paved the way for us here in this life.  I thank them for the heritage they have left us both in family and choices.

     And the wall....    The one that Marliesi created for us:  "Grandkids...  Each one adds two feet to our family tree"   with all of the heights of our grand children

Pictures of my school kids:

     Favorite places we sung like New York, Tucson Arizona, Mountain View.

     Art work they have created for me

     In my drawer are the programs of 10 amazing Mega Concerts that have sucked creative and life blood from me but have been so rewarding.

Emblems:

    KooKoo clock from a trip to Germany with the Utah Young Ambassadors of Music.

    A table that has folding leaves that belonged to my Olsen grandparents (whom I never met)

    A set of china dishes purchased by Lloyd Olsen in 1967 for Dad's and my wedding.

And Finally:

     A statue of George Washington.  A man of honor, integrity and sacrifice.

    A picture of Christ (also a gift from Marlies).  His head is bowed in deep thought, His hands pressed against His lips.  What is He thinking about?
    Or maybe He is saying a prayer.  It is very moving and beautiful.  I think that several of you have this same picture in your home.

For all of these things I give thanks.  I am so blessed.   I pray that you are all well, safe and happy.

Love Mom 

Thursday, September 13, 2012

Small Plates of Gramma Rosi #19


Small Plates of Grandma Rosi   Sept. 9, 2012  #19

Hello Family,

It is a beautiful late summer day here in Utah County.   The temperature is in the mid 80's and the sun is clear and bright.  What a wonderful world we live in.  

The week has clicked right a long.  Dad and I are both feeling better and we have managed to accomplish some things.  

Probably the most exciting part of the week was watching the Aggie (Utah State) football team beat the University of Utah.  Yup, they took down their Big Brother.  It had been 12 years since the Aggies had won but they sure looked good Friday night.   Their head coach was an assistant coach at the U of U for many years before being hired by Utah State.  It was a great moment for him.  We called the Sorensens to see if they were at the game.  No, but they were home watching so we each cheered in our own homes.  

When I was a student at Utah State in 1964-66 one of my favorite things was to go to the football games.  Merlin Olsen hadn't been gone too long and the Aggies had a good reputation.  Their star running back was an assistant in the P.E. department and he taught the (I think it was Bad Mitton) P. E. class that I took.  His name was Roy Shivers.  

I loved eating apples at the games and cheering with my friends.  (Apples in the fall in Cache County were just off the tree and delicious.)  

The second best game for us this week was San Francisco beating Green Bay.  Sorry Luke and Amy.

Luke's family sang in church today.  It was very special.   Amy found a great song. Tyler, Emma and Quincey all had solos in the first verse and then sang together.  Luke and Amy sang the second verse and then the whole family sang the 3rd verse.  Very nicely sung with excellent stage presence.  You all would have been very proud.   

I thought that I might share memories and impressions of our Grandchildren over this next year. I hesitate a bit, as it will be hard to talk about the children that we don't see very often, but with all 15 Grandchildren,  I will ask the Mom of the child to help me with insights into their child and include that in my letter.  I have two reasons for doing this.  1.  to make them feel special   2.   to help cousins, uncles and aunts "stay in touch" with the child. 

Just so I don't get mixed up, I will talk about them in their birthday months.  

Quincey Alyce Mathews:   Born:  Sept 20, 2006  (The Alyce is pronounced Ahlees but is the spelling of my Mother's name, Alyce.)

Quincey is a beautiful little girl with a winning personality.  She has long, blonde hair and tons of energy.  She is very easy going and gets along with everyone.
She has a positive attitude and a zest for life. She loves to play and wrestle with Tyler and it is sometimes hard to get them to settle down and focus.  
She gives wonderful hugs (to Grandpa and Grandma) and sometimes crinkles up her nose when she is talking.  She has lots of friends and has just started kindergarten.  She says that her best friend is her Daddy and her neighbor, Lizzie, is next.  She is playing soccer this year and has scored in every game. (She scored four points in three different games.)  She loves all colors. Her favorite food is either oatmeal or macaroni and cheese. Her favorite thing to do is to carry Parker around or make Parker laugh and smile.  Quincey loves music and often sings and dances while listening.   (Thanks Amy for the insights.)

This month Dixie celebrates her 76th birthday on Sept. 26th and Nick and Deb's anniversary is Sept. 25th.

Love you guys.  Have a great week.

Grandma Rosi

Wednesday, September 5, 2012

deb from wendy fugal, food est extrodinaire

Per request:
http://eatcakefordinner.blogspot.com/2012/04/grannys-white-sheet-cake.html

It looks divine with strawberries on top, but plain is ridiculously delicious as well.

Plates of Gramma Rosi #18


Sunday, Sept 2, 2012

Hello Family,

It's been hard to make myself sit and write a letter tonight.  Dad and I have been home sick all day and I have no energy.  So this will be short.

I have not been to school since Tuesday.  Dad has been quite ill with a sinus infection and I had a sore throat the first of the week.  It was a nice and fair opportunity for me to stay at home and care for him.  Unfortunately, I have gotten more ill and he is still ailing.  Oh well, maybe we will feel better tomorrow.

I have been struggling with my new phone.  I was doing well the first couple of weeks, but since I started school it has been a struggle.  I have never been able to get voice mail messages.  On Saturday, Nick worked on it and finally turned the trick.  I had 33 voice messages.  Sorry if you left one and I didn't get back to you.

Last Monday night Ben called and wanted us to SKYPE (only through the Cisco method) Family Home Evening with his family.  After about 45 minutes (during which time he had several good laughs at our expense) we finally made the connection work.  It was so great to see those five kiddos.  They are growing and beautiful.  Even Kael was showing off and having fun.  They danced for us and then we all sang.  Simple but very, very sweet.  Ben tells me that we could do a conference call and hook up several families at once.  It would be so great to see you all.  We haven't seen Elle and Liam in quite a long time.

I had some important meetings this week. Both were with music departments chairs, one at the University of Utah and the other at Utah State.  Dolora flew into Salt Lake on Friday morning and I picked her up about 9 a.m.  We met with the people at the University of Utah at noon and spent 2 1/2 hours talking and touring their facility.  After that meeting we traveled towards Logan.  We stopped and went through the open house at the Brigham City Temple and then had dinner at Maddox.  We were guests at Utah State that night and then met with the Utah State people the next morning for breakfast, talks and a tour of their music area.  We are looking for a new home for the Institute.  We just completed our 6th summer at MVHS.  As you know, I will retire this year and so we have to find a different location.  I was happy that we could visit these two facilities and that we were welcomed.  At this point we will evaluate the pros and cons of each site and also consider a place in San Diego and another in Reno, Nevada.  It was fun to meet with the Big Wigs at these schools and develop a relationship with them.  I went to high school with the Utah State Chair.  Frankly, he might be 65 now, but he hasn't changed much.

On my way home from Logan (about 5:00 pm) there was an horrendous rainstorm from Roy to Centerville.  The rain was very heavy and there was hail in some areas the size of a 50 cent piece.  (I didn't see any hail on I 15.)  The travel was slow and I thought that I would hydroplane into the cars around me.  But this glorious thing happened.  I saw a beautiful, boldly colored, huge rainbow.  At Lagoon I felt like I had found the pot of gold as it appeared that I was driving through the end of it.  The colors seemed all around me.   (Dad explained to me that it was not possible for me to drive "through" a rainbow and since I didn't find the pot of gold, I guess he was right.)

It is the craziest thing.  I had thought that I would not plant a garden this summer.  I thought that I would just let our grow boxes sit.  Then one day Dad and I ended up at a nursery and I thought "Awe, come on Rosi, you can do it."  We purchased one tomato plant, one yellow squash plant and one cucumber plant, a bag of onion sets and some potato starts.  I put all of these items into our garden boxes in about 30 minutes.  RESULTS:  we have sown more cukes from that one plant than any other year; we have huge beefsteak tomatos that rival any I have every grown, we had a nice crop of yellow squash (I pulled that plant up a week ago) and tons of onions.  (The only disappointing plants were the potatoes.) This may not seem important to you guys, but it is really fun for me.  I usually check that garden about twice each day. Our yard looks good this year.  I have been doing some extra watering and it has helped.  (By the way, Amy has grown GREAT raspberry plants.  The last time we were there I went out and picked a nice handful of raspberries and quickly devoured them.  I didn't share them with Dad.  I was a piggie.)

I hope all is well with all of you.  We are okay.  WE LOVE YOU ALL and keep you in our prayers.

Dad and Mom

Friday, August 24, 2012

Kathleen Fueston


Hello Mathews Fam,
I have such fond memories of Rosi and Bill’s special day.  Although I had been bitten by a cat and was not feeling well, I was in heaven to be involved in the wedding.  Johnny and I had an “important” role that day and so we felt very special. I am so glad to have a copy of that picture.  Actually, it is one of those pictures on my personal all time favorite pictures list.  Thanks for sharing it. 

Rosi, thanks for providing these wonderful “plates” and choosing to include me.  It means so much to me.

I love all of you!  Good luck to all of the students (and teachers) heading back into classes!  Have a wonderful year!

Hug!

Kath

Small Plates of Gramma Rosi #16


Small Plates of Grandma Rosi     Chapter #16    August 19, 2012  Wedding Bells

Dear family,

Dad and I are doing fine.  I am his slave and last night he told me he was grateful.  (That is all I need.)  He is back to his week day travels…mostly up to the mountains (lookout, he has 4 wheel drive) or out to the lake.  He likes to spend time just sitting and looking at the world.  We do have a beautiful world.  I get my “world” time as I walk each morning.  It is sweet.

The temple in Brigham City is almost complete.  The open house period begins very soon and runs until mid-September.  I would love to go.  Meet me there, okay?   It is a gorgeous building and very compelling.  So much so that each time we travel to Cache Valley I drive around it just to gawk.  It is incredibly whiteIt seems to shimmer.  It is also very tall and imposing.  It sits just west of the old tabernacle and stands like two pillars casting a shadow to the east. 

Well, now to finish the account of Dad’s and my wedding.         August 25, 1967

Our wedding day began very early.  I believe I got up about 4:00 a.m.   We were married in the Salt Lake Temple because the Logan Temple was closed for cleaning.  Waking so early, seemed to put me in a daze all day.  I suppose that we arrived at the temple about 7 or 8 a.m. (The trip from Logan to Salt Lake took about 2 hours.)  In those days, you did the whole temple thing in one day.  (If I’d had one wish that day, it would be that I had been partially prepared for that temple experience.  Believe me, I was “green” and had no idea what to expect.)  Although I was nervous and sometimes uncomfortable, the sealing ceremony was very special.  One of the 12 Apostles married us.  His name was Delbert Stapley and was a distant cousin on the Isgreen side of the family.  (Lorraine use to call him “Uncle Del”.)

Lorraine, Woody and others who did not go through the temple with us waited outside.  It was probably 2:00 pm before we got out and they were hungry.  Lorraine was in bad temper and before the day was out she and Arlynn had an argument.  (I imagine that most wedding days have some problem moments and this was ours.)  After the wedding breakfast we made the two hour return to Paradise where we rested for a short time and then prepared for the evening. 

Pictures came first and there were plenty of them.  (See attachments for a couple.)
We had a beautiful reception.  The catering company provided a wonderful buffet of  color and appetite appeal.  We had rented a back screen to stand in front of and our reception “line” was very attractive.  (Arlynn helped me choose colors white, peach and brown.)  I believe there were five bridesmaids and a best man plus the parents and children who stood in line.  (Kathy Fueston was just about 3 years old.  A bad, old cat had bit her arm and it was all swollen with infection.  She was so miserable, but she stood there all night helping hand out “thank you scrolls”.   Johnny Olsen was also in line…a handsome little boy.  There was no air conditioning in the church and August was miserably hot.  The Arlynn and Lorraine battle continued because Lorraine insisted on putting a fan behind the screen where she was standing.  It was noisy and it blew the fabric away from the screen.   Arlynn had worked so hard to make everything lovely that she was really annoyed.  If you look carefully at the wedding pictures you will see this annoyance in both of their faces. 

Friends came from Reno and presented a musical program.  The reception was so long.  Bill and I were both exhausted beyond belief.   We finally escaped and drove over to Brigham City where we spent our first night at the Red Baron.

We had a flat tire the next morning which was repaired in Brigham.  Then we drove to Carson City and spent the night.  We attended church the next day in Carson and Bill introduced me as his new wife.  “This is Rosemary Olsen.”  He left off the Mathews part and the audience laughed. We left early Monday morning for San Francisco where we had our honeymoon.  We stayed at a famous old hotel there…  the Fielding Hotel.

Dad’s reflections:
+ He went into the marriage with no nieces or nephews and after the marriage he had 19.
+While in San Francisco we went to a Giant’s baseball game at Candlestick Park.  It was so fun.  On the way home Dad was confused about which way to turn when we stopped at a red light.  He stopped, then remembered which way to turn and with out waiting for the light to change to green he pulled out and made the turn.  The policeman who gave him the ticket only laughed at his explanation.
+Dad took me to a nice restaurant at Fisherman’s Wharf.  (please remember the only fish I had eaten in my early life were tuna and shrimp.)  He was anxious that I have a really good seafood dinner.  He ordered for me.  When the waiter arrived he placed a wonderful swordfish fillet in front of Bill.  I thought “hummm, that looks pretty good.”  Then he placed this mess of rice and lobster in front of me.  It looked a little bit like vomit and I said to Bill “how could you do this to me?”.  (It was lobster newburg and I have since grown to love it.)
  
Well, that pretty much summarizes the wedding period of our life.  I am sure that tomorrow I will remember something else, but for now I will let it rest.

I will close today with one final story.  Dixie tells me this story and it is important to me because it reflects the love which my father, Lloyd, had for me.  Arlynn reported to Dixie that one day soon after the wedding, she saw Daddy climb the stairs, go into my bedroom and look in deep thought at my wedding dress that was hanging on the back of the bedroom door.  I am sure that he was thinking that his little girl had just completed a big decision in her life, that she was gone from his home and things would never be the same.  Sometimes Dad and I feel this way about you guys.  You are gone from our home and we miss you terribly.  However, I am sure that Lloyd would agree with us, you may be gone from our home but you are never gone from our hearts.  We love you full heartedly.

Mom

wedding pics from Rosi



Wednesday, August 8, 2012

PGR #14


Aug 5 2012

Small Plates of Grandma Rosi   #14    Wedding Bells – Aug. 20-25, 1967

Hello Everybodee!

I thought this week I would share with you a short history of the week of Bill’s and Rosi’s wedding. 

You recall that I met Bill at our LDS Branch one Sunday morning when he was becoming active in the church.  I knew all of the faces in that meeting except his.  I remember he looked big – strong, and friendly.  He had red hair except for the bald spot on top and of course no one in the room missed hearing his huge voice.  The one peculiar thing I recall was that for the most part he sat with his head down.  I thought it was because he was pondering, he later told me that it was because he had been writing Keno all night and was tired.  But, he was at church.

He proposed around a campfire in the Sierra Nevada Mountains when we were at a Branch party.  He gave me the ring on Mother’s Day in 1967 in Carson City, Nevada up Kings Canyon, a favorite spot of his.

I had returned home for a month prior to our wedding date, August 25, 1967.  He arrived the week of our wedding having made the 9 hour trip in about 5 hours.  (Yes, he was speeding to Paradise.)  That week was eventful.  A few things stick out in my mind:

1.  We went to a Logan theater to see Blackbeard’s Ghost.  He laughed so hard that everyone was turning around and looking at us.  I did my usual grin and wondered if I really wanted to marry this loud man.

2.  When we completed our blood work Bill did not pass.  He has had an issue with blood tests since he was born.  I am asking him right now the specifics but he can’t remember.  The gest of it is that for many years every time he had his blood tested it proved positive for a virus that is related to cankers.  (Yea!  He just now remembered:  Herpes Simplex 2.  Dad was told that he picked up the virus at the hospital when he was born.  He does not think it is hereditary.)  Remedy at this time was that they gave him a HUGE shot of penicillin.  He had a lump for days.

3.  We also made a trip up into the mountains with Daddy (Lloyd) and I believe some of Dixie’s family.  This is one of Daddy’s favorite things to do:  Load the back of his jeep with seats and fill them up with family.  Add a sack with Vienna sausages and pork and beans and we are good.  (I imagine that Arlynn made us some sandwiches that day.)  We went through the ranch property (south side) up Hyrum Canyon  and stopped at the springs that provides water for Paradise.  (The bees were flying around enjoying the open water and making Rosi nervous.)  We travelled through the Quacken Asps on rough old roads to Cooks Cabin.  The biggest memory for me was Dad and I carving our initials in a tree trunk-  Dad recalls that we carved:   BM + RO.  
4.  Preparations for the week kept Arlynn very busy.  Dad had paid to have the reception catered so she wasn’t working on food or decorations.  She was instead, working to hang and display the trousseau that she had prepared for us.  (There were about four beautiful quilts.  The red and white checkered quilt that hangs in our kitchen was one of them.  The quilt top had been prepared by my Mom, Alyce.)  The wedding was held at the Paradise Ward Building and Arlynn converted the nice, carpeted Relief Society Room into a wondrous display of quilts, pillow cases, kitchen towels, shower items and more.  She was known through out the south end of Cache Valley as a woman who knew how to display a trousseau.  (Those of you who knew her probably remember that she was a wonderful housekeeper and a clever interior decorator.  She also knew how to hang wall paper and was often asked to help out her friends and family in that way.)

Next week I will detail our wedding day.  Hope you don’t mind my sharing these thoughts with you.  Small talk has so little meaning and I want my communications to you to have substance.  If you prefer, just hide these thoughts away in a file somewhere.  I promise you that some day they will have value for you.

Dad has had health issues this week.  We are staying pretty close to home and watching the Olympics.  It has been a great time to watch TV.  So glad that Ben’s family and Marlies are having a wonderful trip in Alaska.  Tim, we haven’t heard from you in a while.  Please call, we miss hearing your voice.  Our deepest love and affection to all of you, our family.  You are our greatest treasure!!!

Mom 

Tuesday, July 31, 2012

marlies


Hello my dear family
I love you all so much.  Mom, don’t stop – I love your “Small Plates”.  Although I may not respond each week, I look forward to them and to the responses from each of you.  It really does pull us all together from across the country.  Now more than ever I need that and am grateful for your updates.

Things are hot in Vegas………. I am really excited for my trip to Alaska.  I have always wanted to go since dad went with the “Cliffords”.  They looked like they had so much fun.  I will be spending my time looking for a grizzly bear I can take a picture with….  For those of you who don’t know, I am on a quest to take a picture in EVERY STATE with whatever is on the back of that state’s quarter……That means I need a grizzly bear!!!!!  After I get the picture – I SCRAPBOOK IT!

I have loved my this personal quest as it has given me so many fun memories
South Carolina - Dad and I searched for hours for a Palmetto Tree along the coast of S. Carolina.  It was so much fun; we laughed, sang, read signs at each other, played funny games, and took pictures up and down the coast.  I kept asking locals to help me find a Palmetto Tree (For those of you who don’t know they look just like any other Palm tree but aren’t). None of the locals could even agree on which palm was correct -  In the end I have pictures with like ten different types of Palm trees and scrapbooked them all.  I am sure one is a Palmetto.

Idaho – I have to find a peregrine falcon…. Yes you heard me right a PEREGRINE FALCON.  Im not sure if any of you remember, but when we drive through Yellowstone looking for animals Becky was always the one who found them.  She would point and say, look at the Moose or the Elk…….I would look out the wrong window.  So to say I have struggled with this quest would be an understatement.  Melissa and I have gone many times through Idaho looking for that dang Falcon.  After multiple attempts, I finally I took a picture in a potato field with field binoculars looking up.  My scrapbook states…… We looked High, we looked low, but all we found was a POTATOW J  Aren’t we clever.

Love you all
Marlies

kathleen fueston


Rose and Fam,

I loved your letter this week.  Having just returned from Pioneer Trek over 3 days and 23 miles of mostly sage brush, sand, 90 degree heat and wind, I have a greater appreciation for our ancestors who were willing to sacrifice everything to gather to Zion and be faithful to the Lord – I am forever grateful to them. When I am asked to do hard things I often look to them for strength and I remember my heritage and the stock we came from and I know that if they could do hard things, so can I. I am grateful to have each of you as family and think of you often and pray for your regularly.

God bless your way Dear ones!

plates of rosi 12


Small Plates of Grandma Rosi #12           July 22, 2012

Dear Family,

It has been three weeks since I wrote last.  It is hard for me to get started again.  I like to be original and keep you guys interested.  Oh well, here goes.

I just finished making 2 huge pies.  One is a fresh strawberry the other is a Neapolitan pie of vanilla and chocolate…  of course I have added my own special brew complete with  cream cheese and sour cream.  Wish you could all drop in and have a piece.  Dad and I will get big and fat if we eat it all ourselves.

It is Pioneer Day on the Tuesday, the 24th.  Also my Mom’s 101st birthday.  I think that in many ways she was a pioneer. I believe that we all are.

I would like to share some comments by Francis Webster who was part of the Martin Handcart Company.

“We suffered beyond anything you can imagine and many died of exposure and starvation, but did you ever hear a survivor of that company utter a word of criticism?  Every one of us came through with the absolute knowledge that God lives for we became acquainted with Him in our extremities!

I have pulled my handcart when I was so weak and weary from illness and lack of food that I could hardly put one foot ahead of the other.  I have looked ahead and seen a patch of sand or a hill slope and I have said, I can go only that far and there I must give up for I cannot pull the load through it.  I have gone to that sand and when I reached it, the cart began pushing me!  I have looked back many times to see who was pushing my cart, but my eyes saw no one.  I knew then that the Angels of God were there.  Was I sorry that I chose to come by handcart?  NO!  Neither then, nor any minute of my life since.   The price we paid to become acquainted with God was a privilege to pay and I am thankful that I was privileged to come in the Martin Handcart Company.”

This type of sacrifice and devotion seems well beyond me.  I complain for the slightest things and find myself backing away from excessive toil.  I am impatient and often get down in the dumps for foolish things.  Maybe I can yet overcome some things before it’s time for me to leave this world. 

Sorensens, Frus’s, and Ben Mathews families:  Thank you so much for such a wonderful vacation.  Dad and I had such a great time and enjoyed all of you so much.  We are recouping and enjoying a few quiet days before I head back to school for the last time.




Word for the week:

Joy:  Living in harmony with God



Recipe: 

Strawberry Pie Filing

1 ½ cups mashed strawberries
1 cup sugar
3 tablespoons cornstarch
3 tablespoons water
1 tablespoon red food coloring

(combine sugar, cornstarch, water and food coloring.  Stir until cornstarch is dissolved.)
Combine mashed strawberries and sugar mixture in sauce pan and cook on medium heat until mixture boils.   Cool.

Line premade pie shell with fresh strawberries.  When mixture is cooled, cover strawberries in pie shell and refrigerate for a few hours.

Serve with whipped cream.

Dad and I love you all so much.  We are so blessed to have you as part of our family.  Hello to all of our beautiful grandchildren.

Love

Mom

becky and adam


Hello Family,

It sounds like mom has had a nice couple of days.  i bet it was fun to go through some of the jewelry.  I have very fond memories of looking through some of that when we lived in Brigham.  We have been buying old clip-on earrings from estate sales around the area.  Elizabeth has loved playing with them, and Claire and Matthew also liked playing dress up with them while they visited.

The summer in New Mexico has been very busy.  Adam, EJ and I have been in the field almost every other week.  We camp out for two nights and spend three days looking at spring waters and doing geology of the Zuni and Sandia Mountains.  I have really learned a lot and feel very good about the knowledge I have for completing my PhD.  I still have 2-3 more years to go, but it sure is nice to have a good grasp on the science.

Adam is hard at work doing two major project (other than taking care of EJ and helping me in the field).  He is going strong with glass and has been juried into two gallery shows, one in Mesa and one in Santa Fe.  He is also participating in three mineral shows throughout the rest of the year.  He is able to sell his minerals as well as his art.

Elizabeth is growing and learning so much!  She is really chatty and trying to talk.  When she sees letters she will start to sing A E I O U and point at all of the words.  She has gotten better at shapes, but still isn't getting colors.  She loves to jump and run.  She is so great in the field.  She is patient and never fussy.  If she gets hurt (happens more frequent than I wish), it doesn't take anytime to get over it.

We love you all and hope all is well with each of you and yours
becky

Rosi plates 13


July 29, 2012

Hi Family,

Sure hope that you have had a good week.  The summer vacation days are weaning away for me.  Just two weeks left before I have to hit the road running back at MVHS.  I have much to do before that time. First and foremost, I have to select and order the music for next year. Much of it is already dictated for my big choir as we have five hefty songs to learn for our performance at Carnegie Hall in April and we are also singing portions of the Messiah with the Utah Lyric Opera Company.  (Chamber Choir will be doing the chorus for Amahl and the Night Visitors for that same evening.) 

It has been nice to have a couple of quieter weeks here with Dad. He has converted me into doing some indexing of the 1940 U.S. census.  It is fun to work side by side with him.  We have converted a small table into a computer spot for me.  That way when I have questions (which I have a lot of) he can simply turn and help me.

As you know, the Olympics are off and running.  We are watching a bit of it. The athleticism of the participants is remarkable.  

Dad and I went with Luke and his family on a camp out this weekend.  (It was like a Hilton camp out as we stayed in his converted tent camper and ATV trailer.  Boy, he has really put together a nice camping outfit complete with everything you need all tied up in one package.  The whole family (except Parker) helped put it up and take it down.  They each seem to have their own responsibility.  It is very comfortable and convenient.  

Some of the events (planned and unplanned) during out camp out: Luke had a blowout on his Tahoe; beautiful vistas (Dad was renewed); ATV rides;  hilarious bedtime show by Grandpa that made us all laugh; being pelted by a blinding rain/hail storm as some of us rode the ATV's back to camp; packing up early because of all of the rain; creating a Christmas tree in July out of mostly natural things; and more. Thanks, Luke and Amy.

We understand that Roderick is off to college this week.  Congratulations and good luck.  A new season of your life, Rick!!!  Birthdays past Jill and Matthew.  Birthdays a head?  August has so few.  My Dad, Lloyd's, is August 28th.  Bill and I will have been married for 45 years on August 25th.   Marlies and Ben's family off to a Disney Cruise to Alaska today.  Wow, now the family is even more scattered.  Rhode Island to Texas to Alaska.  Gratefully it is only temporary.  Have a wonderful time!!!

Two accomplishments this week that have made me feel good about myself:
      I bought Dad an electric hedger for his birthday.  (Now let me tell you, he was REALLY  excited about that.)  I have been whacking our overgrown bushes and it has been fun.  What would have taken me hours last summer took more like 45 minutes.  (of course, the clean up took some time.)
      I have been going through all of the old and new jewelry (MEN you will get excited about this) that is scattered around our house.  (Like in 4 places)  I am getting it organized and putting some of it together (with the help of Emma) into small bags for each of the granddaughters that will be placed in my cedar chest for a future day.  The jewelry belonged to Veta Mathews, Lorraine Mathews, Alyce Olsen and Rosi Mathews.  

HOME COOKIN’
Slow Cooker Garlic and Brown Sugar Chicken
sixsistersstuff.com

4-6 chicken breasts (or thighs would work great too!)
1 cup packed brown sugar
2/3 cup vinegar
1/4 cup lemon-lime soda
2-3 Tablespoons minced garlic
2 Tablespoons soy sauce
1 teaspoon fresh ground pepper
2 Tablespoons corn starch
2 Tablespoons water
Rice or noodles, cooked
Red pepper flakes (optional)

Directions:
Spray slow cooker with non-stick cooking spray. Place chicken (I used frozen chicken, thawed chicken works great too) inside slow cooker. Mix together brown sugar, vinegar, soda, garlic, soy sauce, and pepper together. Pour over chicken. Cook on low for 6-8 hours or high for 4 hours. Take chicken pieces out of slow cooker (mine basically fell apart) and pour remaining sauce into saucepan. Place saucepan over high heat. Mix together corn starch and water, pour into saucepan, and mix well. Let sauce come to a boil and boil for 2-3 minutes, or until it starts to thicken and turns into a glaze. Remove from heat and let sit for a minute or two (it will continue to thicken as it cools down).
Serve chicken over rice or noodles and top with glaze. Sprinkle red pepper flakes on top if desired.
Recipe adapted from 
Slow and Simple

Sure having fun with Tyler, Emma and Quincey for a couple of days.  They are our house guests.
 Well, Children.  Have a great week.  Thanks to Jill and Marlies for their up dates last week.  Sure love you all.

Mom

Tuesday, July 3, 2012

tim and jill

Hello all...
The Mathews' Family in Rhode Island will soon be moving...where?  We don't know...moving on a new adventure is all we know at this point.  Tim sadly did not get the job promotion, however new and better things are on the way.  We just know that!  I must admit it's kind of scary not knowing where we will be in two months.  I am just thankful today that we all have our health and that we have our necessities.  So, lots of fun and exciting changes here for us.  I was so happy Tim got to spend time with you all.  I wished the kids and I could have come too.  We miss you all so much!  I really HOPE Tim gets a job closer to the west.  I am NOT a big fan of living this far from family at all.  The experience out here has taught us so much.  We are so ready to though to move on.  I will keep you all posted where we end up!  Right now it looks like Omaha is the biggest possiblity.  
 
Over the weekend my sweet nephew passed away (my brother's only boy). He was 19 and would have been 20 in August. My nephew was like a brother to me so this is very hard. My family all came together and bought me and the kids plane tickets to be there for the service. I have never been more grateful! We will be spending 10 days in northern Idaho. Today I realize, life is so precious. Each day we wake up is truely a miracle.  Cherish each moment you get with your children and just be in the moment.  
 
Take care and sending our love to you all....
 
 
Tim, Jill, Ellie, Liam

bill and rosi

Hello,

The first day of July, 2012... wow!  The month to celebrate our nation.   There are 8 range and forest fires raging in our state.  Hope the fireworks don't create yet more problems.

Family news:

I hope that you have all had a good week.  It has been nice to visit with several of you.  Nick and family have been here, Marlies arrived tonight, Luke's family is in California (we saw them before they left last week.  They stopped into the Institute and I was able to introduce the family to the teachers and students there.  I was very proud to do so.) So sorry Jill, for the loss of your nephew.  Becky has been braiding hair (her own and EJ's;  cute, cute) and Benny sounded awesome tonight on the telephone.  Dad is 6th in the ward in "Indexing", a genealogical project (and he is this moment at the computer typing in names.)  Grandma Rosi is up to her eyeballs in opera ...  staging scenes from Dido and Aeneas and The Marriage of Figaro.  One more huge week and our 6th Institute season is over.  We will be moving to a new location next year and I have been doing some research on that project.  Both Utah State University and the University of Utah are VERY interested in having our Institute relocate to their facilities.  It has felt good to find a couple of hot spots that might work out for us.

Not a lot to say tonight.  I will share with you one of the musings that I have written this summer.  I think about little stories that come to me as I walk.  The prose is not polished, but I figure if I get started and keep trying my writing will improve:

My Dad

My Silver-haired Daddy has always been
            My safety net and my true king pin
As a girl he taught me the values I cherish
Honesty, virtue and an eternal marriage

A quiet love and deep hurt at the passing of my Mom
We have shared in common from that day on.
The pain was unspoken but we both knew
That life without Alyce would be lonely and blue.

Dad accepted and embraced my husband, Bill
And was often there to listen when my voice I would trill
The tunes from operas and recital fare
And other unpleasantness he would have to bear

The six grandchildren we brought to his family tree
Were sacred special spirits he valued without fee
He purchased a pony for them to ride
And pulled them on sleighs often skinning their hide.

But when at hard moments my mind would roam,
To thoughts of Paradise, my true ancestral home.
The vision of my Daddy would feed and comfort me
As I struggled with life’s problems I felt cradled on his knee.

We love you all..   nothing has changed there.  We care about each and every one of you.  

Wisdom from Mom:  Be good and keep a stiff upper lip.

Grandma Rosi

rosi

Hello again,

I would like to add some additional comments to my letter regarding the Institute.

I want you all to know how important and wonderful my Sis, Dixie, continues to be in our Institute program (and in my life).

I had thought that she wouldn't be returning as the hospitality chair this year, but no, she is there working every day, providing awesome dinners.  The thing that is touching to me is that I believe the primary reason she does this is to support me and make me look better.  I also appreciate that it was really her that made our contact with the University of Utah people who are coming this week to talk with us about providing space for the Institute next year.  She privately passed the message to me so that it looked like it was my networking that had provided the contact.  I know she did this because she loves me.  I have been so fortunate to have her love and support since I was a little girl.  I am grateful to see some similar deeds among you, our children.  Offers of help and kindness, support and love for siblings and their children.  I want us to all be an eternal family and I know if kindness and unselfishness rules, our goal will be accomplished.

Have a wonderful week.  I am off to opera this morning and my stomach is churning.  It will be nice to have the stress level reduced and my mind to function without it for a few weeks after this Saturday.

Have a wonderful day!!

Mom

Grandma Rosi is up to her eyeballs in opera ...  staging scenes from Dido and Aeneas and The Marriage of Figaro.  One more huge week and our 6th Institute season is over.  We will be moving to a new location next year and I have been doing some research on that project.  Both Utah State University and the University of Utah are VERY interested in having our Institute relocate to their facilities.  It has felt good to find a couple of hot spots that might work out for us.